Posted in kink, writing, tagged kink bingo, slash fiction, wolverine/gambit on July 22, 2009 | Leave a Comment »
…for the short and important announcement that I’ve received my first KINK BINGO CARD from this fantastic community!
Look at it in all its glory! Yeah! Hot! I’ll go get to work…
Foot Fetish Schleck brothers RPF (I’m kind of ashamed I did that)
Worship Calypso/Odysseus
Branding Wolverine/Gambit
Painplay Rory/Jess (Gilmore Girls, so yes, it’s a nice and fluffy [...]
Posted in esoteric nonsense, kink, sexism on July 11, 2009 | Leave a Comment »
Look! I found you some lunacy! (Hat-tip to Ren.)
The posturing of sadists and masochists as “transgressive” can be confusing to those not familiar with feminist theory.
This statement might be confusing to those not familiar with bdsm because it makes widly generalized assumptions about “sadists and masochists”. I’ve given up hope of ever finding out who [...]
Posted in films, gender, kink on June 3, 2009 | 2 Comments »
It might be time to rename the blog. “Ireen’s obsession with Wolverine and Gambit.” And last night I seem to have tried to fuck my boyfriend like Schreibertooth. With teeth and claws. But do not worry – it’ll pass. I am like that. And no boyfriends have been harmed.
That said – it hasn’t passed yet. [...]
Posted in gender, kink, theory, tagged BDSM, Freud, Kraft-Ebbing, masochism on April 7, 2009 | 1 Comment »
Recently, I did some digging into the history of BDSM and I came across a few interesting points on masochism and gender, namely in the work of Kraft-Ebbing and Freud.
Richard Freiherr von Kraft-Ebbing, author of the “Psychopathia Sexualis”, not only coined the terms sadism and masochism in his classification of sexual perversions. He was also [...]
Posted in beauty, dreams, kink, religion on March 18, 2009 | 4 Comments »
I can see the back of the church in front of me as I walk down the street. For the fraction of a second, I am shit scared. I wanna turn around, go home. The weight of my bag, of the toys I brought, reminds where I’m going and why. He rings me, says he’s [...]
Posted in kink on February 14, 2009 | 3 Comments »
Reading blogs I’ve noticed all kinds of things, both in terms of new perspectives and in understanding myself. Most importantly, I found out that being dominant is much more a part of me than I thought. Being in a vanilla relationship all I could get was to submit a little, being bound or spanked for [...]
Posted in kink, tagged bondage, kink, workshop on November 29, 2008 | 2 Comments »
So, it’s happened, I’ve been to my very first bondage workshop! I was so much looking forward to it all day, especially because I had a really long seminar at uni beforehand. So, yes, all I could think about was the glass of sparkling wine they promised and bondage bondage bondage because it’s so much [...]
Posted in identity, kink, writing, tagged dreams, kink, sadism on November 27, 2008 | 6 Comments »
How do people read blogs? I so get lost over the thousands and thousands of links to all these other entries that I haven’t read yet and need to read now and then I end up with all these open tabs and don’t know where to look and it’s all so interesting and then I [...]
Posted in identity, kink, tagged BDSM, kink, sadomasochism, words on November 7, 2008 | 2 Comments »
As I am the one and only student in all gender classes, who feels the urgent need to talk about kink, this keeps happening:
Some student: “…although women and men are equal, it seems like most women really enjoy being dominated in bed. I wonder why that is.”
Me, remembering all the Bitchy Jones lectures about false [...]
